I know it's been a while since I've posted - my apologies.
Look at this bed I've come across on craigslist! I think, I think, I may have found the correct key words to search for. It's reminiscent of this bed that I love - no? Too bad it's a double and not a queen!

I can see it reupholstered in the beautiful pink raw silk I've been saving...the colour changes slightly depending on the light...sometimes it looks pink-y sometimes a bit gray. Or perhaps a fantastic print...*sigh* I'll have to continue to keep my eyes open and be patient.